Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Back in Bradenton FL

     I know Laura went over that we are back on the road but it appears since she has turned 40 she is forgetting how to blog and how its supposed to be a daily thing, hehe. So to catch you up properly, we left Pine Island and spent a week in Bradenton FL at the apartment. While there, Laura found this great place on the Peace river where we could go and look for Megalodon and other fossilized teeth.

Fancy Tooth Finder



We traveled about 45 minutes due east of Bradenton and found a little campground and parking area right on the river outside Arcadia FL. The campground was ready for these eager tooth hunters as they sold us this wonderful sifter that you see here. While we didn't find any Megalodon teeth we did however come across several shark and ray teeth during our two hour excursion.

The Booty










This was a great half day trip and we recommend it to anyone coming to Florida on vacation, just watch out for the gators if you come in April/May.









Laura took the boys back to De Soto National Park because it was such a beautiful place.





How'd they get to be so sweet!!








   

     We also decided to watch another sunset on the Florida gulf coast before we headed west for the spring and summer. The thing I love about Florida, everyone near the beach stops and takes in the sunset every day that its visible. This is something that Laura and I have decided to do at least twice a week.

WOW!!







     Our last day before traveling west, Laura took Aiden to the Mott Aquarium, now Jacob was slated to go but he chose to be naughty and was stuck at home watching me work. Aiden was so excited to tell us about the Manatee's, Sharks and of course the Sea Turtles!

     This was a nice break before our long trek back west to see the wonders of New Orleans, San Antonio, Tuscon and of course the National Parks along the way.












Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Parenting fail number 5,693.... and counting...

We are back at it!
Dancing in our seats, bopping down the road, on the way from Bradenton to Tallahassee FL. We know we’ve been sitting still too long; Alan has to re-acquaint himself with the rules when pulling this beast! Turns out it is NOTHING like riding a bike! We are a little gun-shy after the last major issue with the rig but we also know that is just part of the trip. These rigs aren’t meant to full time and they aren’t made very well so fixing it often is part of the adventure.

     Tonight we are shooting for the camping world in Tallahassee. If you get there early you can snag a spot near their repair bay with electricity- WAHOO! It’s amazing how our priorities have changed, but so very much for the better! We have done a great job making small daily changes to diet, exercise and spirit. Next is to really honor when we eat out so that it is more like when we were kids, not an expectation but a treat. We love trying the cuisine of the region but we can get a LITTLE carried away. (And I am not convinced shamrock shakes are really a necessity in expressing our joy for St. Patrick’s Day, but whatever.)
       On the way to Tallahassee we went over the Suwannee River, which, of course is also a famous song. The first few bars of which are even on the sign indicating it is the same river in the song. Not one to let an educational opportunity pass I whipped out the phone and called up the first YouTube video relating to the song. Bing Crosby, can’t go wrong right? WRONG! I didn’t remember that whole line about “darkies”!  Needless to say the song was abruptly cut short and a long discussion around racism quickly ensued! So THAT’S why we don’t really sing it anymore. PARENTING FAIL!  And speaking of parenting fails….    
 We are super excited to get to the homeschooling conference after New Orleans, I am going to be speaking about how to use Thirty One in conjunction with homeschooling and general Fulltiming. And one of my favorite people, Kimberly Traveglino has invited me to speak on her radio show with MaryBeth Goff. I’ll be talking about using ThirtyOne as a “location independent” business to help support our lifestyle. I have never been on the radio but have been looking into starting some voice over work so this will be a good way to get my feet wet and really hear myself. If I sound like Sylvester, I can pretty much skip the voice over work!
     I have spent the last six months really processing what it means to change my self-identity.  I still tell people I am a teacher but it’s a weird conversation each time as I am not really sure when I will return to a classroom or where that might happen. This is the conversation I find myself in at least twice a week…
“So, you LIVE in your fifthwheel?”
“Yep, we are traveling the country for a year, studying Revolutionary war history and doing other hands on –learning. “
“So the kids are… HOMESCHOOLED” (This statement inevitably comes with a cocked eyebrow at the very least and always with a certain look that indicates a guard has fallen over someone’s countenance, they are scanning for crazy, I know it.)
“Yes, they are, I was a teacher for 13 years prior to this.”
“OH! Okay.” Now the veil is lifted because I have somehow made it ok. As if I now have some kind of skill that makes it acceptable for me to home school.
The truth of this is that in Many, Many, Many, MANY ways, 30 kids were a lot easier than two, for a myriad of reasons. But I think it’s time that I publicly fess up, this has been just short of an academic disaster. The progress that can be measured by state tests would show up as minimal if not worse. So there, I said it. I’m a teacher and I stink at teaching my own kids. So we are re-vamping, trying to enroll in an online school out of Colorado and if that doesn’t work I am purchasing a complete curriculum. Because, while they have had amazing experiences and may understand things on a level totally unattainable from their peers, it won’t test well. And that my friends, is the way of this world. They know the first five presidents, they know the preamble, they understand the amendments and more importantly, they have seen where these things came from. They have walked the same hallowed ground, but the school district won’t measure that. Without the structured school day, they have learned a lot, but not the “right” things. So for that reason, no matter where we go next year, whether another year out, or staying in Colorado next year, I’ll be keeping at least Jacob out of public schools. He isn’t ready to go back and a system that pushes him along further and faster than he’s ready to go, that wasn’t doing him any good.
    I am excited to go to the home school convention and connect with other home school parents to help us figure this out. There are lots of new ways to implement curriculum that I know nothing about. I am excited to learn about lap books and we have started to work on languages orally. Listening to Spanish on CD as a family!  I’ll video the next set of lessons, it’s hysterical!
     We have also reworked our travel schedule to travel more slowly and stay in one place longer, a week is the minimum and often a few weeks  at a time. I hope that will give us more time to work on the basics. We will see. I think being cognoscente of the issues are a good start, and now we are trying to find a way to make this work on more levels now that we know more what to expect. For the time being, “school” is an everyday occurrence at some level. And I am holding them more accountable for their learning by having them create more evidence pieces rather than just talking about it. It’s a work in progress. Now, off to the French quarter to learn about the birthplace of Jazz! (Another piece NOT covered by state standards!)

Boudin anyone?

Thursday, March 20, 2014

See you down the road Grammie...

     We left Pine Island the day after my 40th birthday, I take it as a good omen that excitement and adventure will continue throughout the next decade. I am super excited to be 40, each decade is better than the last. We left Pine Island and came up the coast of Florida about two hours to Bradenton. My in-laws have a lovely two bedroom apt there that we are staying in for the week. It is HEAVENLY! We all have a chance to spread out, ironically the boys spent the first two hours in the bedroom with me, sprawled out on the king size bed! We take awhile to untangle ourselves from each other.
     The second day we were here we got the call that my Grandmother, 93 had passed away. I was able to go and visit her just before Christmas, it was the first time I had seen her in over 20 years despite the fact that we called back and forth every Sunday until I was 30! I no longer believe in coincidence. Of all the places we could have wintered in Florida, by sheer chance, the last job, at Pine Island brought me within an hour drive of my Uncle, Aunt and Grandmother. They are all on my deceased mother's side so I haven't had the chance to spend much time with them. It was a blessing to be able to see Grammie, and to spend time with my Uncle and Aunt. They are amazing, so kind and loving and welcomed us right into the fold. I truly feel like I was meant to be here so that we could all reconnect. And to do it, before my Grandmother passed away, was a true blessing. In this lifestyle, guardian angels are a must, I am so glad to have another one watching out for us.
 Love you Grammie!













Monday, March 17, 2014

Leaving Pine Island

     Well, turns out there is a part of being a nomad I am not so good at, it’s the leaving part! We’ve been here since November and it’s time to pack it up and move out! It’s also the night of my fortieth birthday and I am so filled with gratitude and excitement for the coming year! Living my dream at 40 begs the question, “What next?”
     We have had an amazing season here on Pine Island and learned so much! Again and again we saw how important it is to embrace the moment and really live fully with our children and in our marriage. We also now understand more than ever how important it is that we not give up on our weight loss goals and we continue to work toward our optimum health. If we plan to live as long as most of the people here we want to be able to enjoy those years fully, as many of the guests here do!
    We had a fantastic time exploring the area, getting to know the local library and their fantastic staff and especially the people here at the Pine Island resort. We both worked outside our comfort zones, learning new things, and working with people we would never have had a chance to meet otherwise. I felt like I really had to be flexible in my thoughts of “who I am” in order to be successful here. It was very liberating!  Gin and Rob Ost taught me lots about cooking AND new ways to look at life! Rob shared a story with me that I wish I had heard last year while thinking about taking a break from the classroom. He said take a bucket of water, swish your hand around in it, make waves.... then pull your hand out. The water is still in the bucket, the surface returns to normal, everything goes on. It's very reassuring to know that no one is irreplaceable, and life will go forward with or without us so we need to make decisions for us. 
     We met so many great people, saw so many different ways of living, it was an amazing experience. And, now, just as SUEPARKER predicted, we have friends who are going to be spreading out all over the country, and quite a few in Canada, who have invited us to come visit in the coming year.
     Watching Aiden broaden his social circle has been fun to watch. He has been offering for weeks now, to take Bridgeeta to the dog park by himself in the evenings. Since it is on property, not far from our space we let him. Last night we went with him to the dog park as it was near dusk. When we arrived we realized Aiden has created a whole network of older people that come each night and he plays with their dogs! They all know him, and he knows…their dogs! He knows each one’s name, personality, who gets along with who and so on! So great, and it has helped in the boys lucrative dog sitting business as well! I am so proud of them both, all season I have received countless compliments on their behavior and level of respect for people around the park. People truly seem to enjoy having them around and I am glad to see them developing the ability to make friends of all ages.
    We have been blessed to make lots of great friends here, My friend Dana made us some amazing curtains. I Love them, they make the camper feel very homey! 
Also, a picture of Aiden and Mr. Eric, whom he ADORES! This is last weekend, the four of us were out wading in low tide when a three to four foot hammerhead shark paid us a visit! YIKES!!!! We are so grateful for the support and friendship of the Lee's and can't wait to see them up in Michigan!



  We will miss Pine Island, and the people we met there! Can't wait to see them down the road.



   (Also, I want to give a big shout out to the Coyote that FINALLY killed the damn rooster that lives behind the park.  It CLEARLY had no idea what time sunrise is and felt entitled to crow 24/7. It’s a really nice parting gift and I didn’t mind the brutal murder one little bit. I’m sorry, I didn’t. I am 40 now, I can speak my mind.)

Thursday, February 27, 2014

Tracking our states visited since June 2013


visited 29 states (58%)
This is our map for THIS TRIP but as a family we are up to 47 states!

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Seeing Friends on the road!


One of the most wonderful things and difficult things about traveling full time is the interactions we get to have with friends, new and old. It's amazing to be in a new place and make new friends and also, very hard to leave them. When we left Massachusetts this summer, our new friend SUEPARKER (no, that's not a typo, it's all one word) took the boys aside. Knowing they were struggling with leaving their new friends she explained that the contacts we make stay with us and our friendships ripple out across the country and throughout our lives. SUEPARKER is right! We have been so blessed by our friendships, in so many areas of our lives but especially the last few months. While working in Mass we met and worked for a wonderful family. The Kelsey's have lots of wonderful children and one of them, Michael works in the hospitality industry. He was able to get us an amazing hookup at a hotel in Orlando and as an added treat, he had milk and cookies delivered to our fancy shmancy room! The boys and I went up to Orlando for a night and had a super special date! Here are picts of the pool and the fancy restaurant and of course, the super special surprise!
It made our special vacation even more special.
Jacob and the fancy bread basket
Super cool poolside fireplace



Jacob, Aiden and Livy at the Pool!

       We were in Orlando to meet up with Livy, Sammy and their Mom and Dad, Alyse and Phil. For those unfamiliar with these amazing people we should tell you Livy also goes by the name Wooby. Aiden laid eyes on her at the tender age of two and promptly said, "I'm gonna marry you!" and she is all for it! They have a very special connection that doesn't seem to dim with time and/or space. So when I told Aiden that Livy was in the state, he broke into tears of gratitude that we would get to see her. Jacob was also really excited to see Her older sister Sammy, all four of them have a great time together. We had a fantastic visit with them and were so very grateful they took time out of their vacation to see us. I wish we could have made the same trip up to Orlando the month before to see the Stockton crew and the Alejano-Steele crew as well! Seeing these friends from home really help us feel connected to our community.


   
Our friend Loya and her family came to visit us here at the park! Loya and I met at Philmont Scout Ranch 20 years ago this summer! She and her husband Andy were in our wedding and they have been traveling the lower 48 with their three gorgeous children. They are spending the winter touring in their van and a very cool tent that set up on top of their vehicle. It was AMAZING to catch up and felt as if no time had passed.

Fishing off the pier

Ms. Loya and Ms. Lilly!

 The boys loved getting to hang out with other kids and we all had a blast. They got us the highly coveted Florida snowshovel! It's used in shelling so we took it to Sanibel Beach a few days later. 



Of course getting to see family is amazing too! My brother Jon and his family were kind enough to fly in a day early to Orlando and spend it with us at Universal studios before they met with his in-laws for a few days. We LOVE seeing the girls, Alan gets his girl fix, we adore them. And, even though it was a quick visit it was great. We explored Universal studios and got to share the experience of Hogsmeade and Hogwarts together. Those of you who know me professionally no doubt no about my enjoyment (fine it's an obsession, whatever,) with Harry Potter. Anything that has led millions of kids to find their passion in reading has my vote! This was truly, magical. Harry Potter come to life. It was awe-inspiring. (yes, I did well up thank you very much!) I wish I had more pictures to show you, of course with a ride like that the camera had to be put away but it was wonderful! More Universal Studio rides to come!




   

Friday, February 14, 2014

Catching Up with January Activities

        In January we continued to work a bunch of hours at this KOA and didn't get a lot of opportunities to run around. Since the IBM job hadn't really started we decided to stick close to the RV park. Laura was able to take a field trip with the boys and another mom here in the RV park. They took all four kids to Manatee Park where they were able to watch the sea cows play around in a protected area.



      There are places in Florida where they let you snorkel with the Manatee which I think we are going to do when we are back here next winter. At the end of January we were able to get back up to Orlando and do a trip to Sea World and LegoLand as Xmas gifts from us to the boys this year. Laura has also started selling the Thirty One products as a side income and decided to use Aiden as a sales model. Buy her stuff and make us rich and we will throw in the kid!!!!!!
(I have to put in my two cents on this one because I love that kid but I LOOOOOVE that bag! You can unzip the middle to add three more inches of room and it can easily hold everything for an overnight stay for four. I LOVE IT!!!!)



      Now for those of you who have heard bad things about Sea World I know what your going to say but we have listened to both sides and so far have seen nothing in the way of video proof that they actually abuse the animals, plus we bought the tickets anyway and were not going to waste them. When we got there it was 40 degrees and raining so the crowds were non existent which was wonderful for us. No lines for any of the attractions and food. We were able to see all the shows and just didn't get to do a couple of rides due to the weather. Our package to Sea World got us a commemorative cup that we got to build together as a family.


      From the tower we got to see the whole park and saw the whales training in their pens. We were able to watch the baby dolphins in the maternity pen play around with their moms which was just adorable. (I was particularly impressed with the chance we had to have a close encounter with the dolphins. They would come to the edge of the pool and watch us, jump up and interact, it was really cool.)






      The second day of our Orlando trip was a Fulltime Families Rally at LEGOLAND which was awesome. There were all kinds of Lego scenes and statues made out of what, that's right, all Legos, who knew you could form a theme park around Legos. We were supposed to hang out with the other full time families but it was soooo wet that once they opened the gate we all really scattered. I bet some other families got to hang out but we were fine just bopping around. The boys had an awesome time riding around in a lego boat that at one point was turned around going UP the river against traffic, still had a great time!















The sign sums it up! We are having a great time, but eager to see our friends back at home too!