Catching Up with January Activities

        In January we continued to work a bunch of hours at this KOA and didn't get a lot of opportunities to run around. Since the IBM job hadn't really started we decided to stick close to the RV park. Laura was able to take a field trip with the boys and another mom here in the RV park. They took all four kids to Manatee Park where they were able to watch the sea cows play around in a protected area.

      There are places in Florida where they let you snorkel with the Manatee which I think we are going to do when we are back here next winter. At the end of January we were able to get back up to Orlando and do a trip to Sea World and LegoLand as Xmas gifts from us to the boys this year. Laura has also started selling the Thirty One products as a side income and decided to use Aiden as a sales model. Buy her stuff and make us rich and we will throw in the kid!!!!!!
(I have to put in my two cents on this one because I love that kid but I LOOOOOVE that bag! You can unzip the middle to add three more inches of room and it can easily hold everything for an overnight stay for four. I LOVE IT!!!!)

      Now for those of you who have heard bad things about Sea World I know what your going to say but we have listened to both sides and so far have seen nothing in the way of video proof that they actually abuse the animals, plus we bought the tickets anyway and were not going to waste them. When we got there it was 40 degrees and raining so the crowds were non existent which was wonderful for us. No lines for any of the attractions and food. We were able to see all the shows and just didn't get to do a couple of rides due to the weather. Our package to Sea World got us a commemorative cup that we got to build together as a family.

      From the tower we got to see the whole park and saw the whales training in their pens. We were able to watch the baby dolphins in the maternity pen play around with their moms which was just adorable. (I was particularly impressed with the chance we had to have a close encounter with the dolphins. They would come to the edge of the pool and watch us, jump up and interact, it was really cool.)

      The second day of our Orlando trip was a Fulltime Families Rally at LEGOLAND which was awesome. There were all kinds of Lego scenes and statues made out of what, that's right, all Legos, who knew you could form a theme park around Legos. We were supposed to hang out with the other full time families but it was soooo wet that once they opened the gate we all really scattered. I bet some other families got to hang out but we were fine just bopping around. The boys had an awesome time riding around in a lego boat that at one point was turned around going UP the river against traffic, still had a great time!

The sign sums it up! We are having a great time, but eager to see our friends back at home too!

     

Catching Up with December Activities

      So everyone, its been a few weeks since we have posted anything, between the jobs and running around its been a little crazy but we are going to get better at keeping you informed as to whats going on here with the Hamilton's.

     Over the last six weeks or so, Laura has been hard at work in the kitchen and I have been working maintenance. The other job was on hold over the holidays and at one point Laura and I thought it was a scam until we both realized that a scam would not have me do pee test in a LabCorp facility. I received my work computers and started working three weeks ago so that has eliminated a lot of the stress I was feeling up until now. I really want to keep going on this adventure but without a job that I could do remotely that was going to be impossible. I am going to add a few posts after this one and kind of go back in time so you can see what we have done.

      On this post I would like to go back to just before Xmas when my dad and Cyndi were in Florida and took us to Disney World for a Christmas Parade. Now I was here at the ripe old age of 12 with my family back in the 80's so I thought things may have changed. Of course they haven't in 25 years with the exception of adding a few of the new Disney characters. When I was there as a kid I had never seen the Magic Kingdom at Xmas so it was quite a wondrous sight.
                                         

      I know lots of our friends have been to Disney World so I won't bore you all with everything we did but some of the rides scared the pee out of the kids since it was dark. We got wet on the log ride, checked out the Pirates of the Caribbean and Swiss Family Robinson house along with The Xmas parade that we got to see twice. Aiden has decided that pirates and robots do not mix and pirate robots have no place in this world. Hmmmm. Jacob had his first taste of thrill rides loved them, for the most part. 

Just arriving at the Magic Kingdom

Swiss Family Robinson Tree House

      

Disney Xmas Parade

I really want that hat

     So the last picture is the castle as we took the ferry back to the front entrance after watching the last parade. Dad and Cyndi were great to take us all on our first amusement park trip while in Florida, Thanks again guys! I believe we are going to hit the other Disney parks if we have time before we leave at the end of March.

WOW it changed colors right before our eyes

Stranded on Pine Island, Don't send help....

I have been trying to blog for WEEKS! The plain truth of it is, it seemed a bit insensitive to tell you all about the sunshine when it was in the negatives back at home! I'll just say, it's lovely here, almost all the time. I walk to work at 5:30 and it's warm, the stars are out and the palm trees sway along the way. After work we hang int he pool, and bald eagles and osprey fly overhead with talons filled with fish. Yep, pretty great.
      On occasion, it does get stormy here. Some rain, some wind and a little chill. And we have found something extraordinary. The best shells wash ashore the day after a storm. The ocean gets churning, the wind blows, it's chilly and nasty and then, VOILA! Something beautiful washes ashore. What a great lesson for our family, if you just hang in there, get through the storm, something new and beautiful will wash up. It's just a matter of watching carefully for it.

Jacob watching a dolphin feet from shore, that's the dorsal fin!

The warm weather isn't the only reason I haven't posted. This last couple months has been a period of intense personal growth for me. We anticipated learning more about our kids, about our family and our marriage through this trip, but I didn't realize how much I would learn about myself. And more importantly what kind of changes I would see and make in myself. It's an interesting time of being continually placed in situations outside my comfort zone, learning new things, testing my limits. There is a lot to process but I am certain that this time on the road has happened in a very specific way, for very specific reasons and could not have happened any other way, at any other time. Having spent so much time with people from other generations, (Alright, OLD people) has been really eye opening for all of us and has really made us appreciate the timing of all this. That we did it NOW and not in 20 years was the right choice for our family and it's great to meet so many supportive, involved people on this journey. I was talking with Ann today, (her youngest child is 4 years older than myself). She, like so many others here, commended our choices and said the same thing we hear over and over, "I wish my kids could have experienced something like this." But then she said, "From what I have gathered in this life, the most important thing you can do is have a dream, and work toward it." I said to her, "But Ann, what happens now?? I reached my dream!" She said, "Keep living it!"  Well said Ann!
And, in case you are more the glass half empty kinda person...  Our friend Kelly passed away Christmas Morning at just 58.  He and his amazing wife Sue are cattle ranchers in S.D. and have been coming down here for the last 6 years. The morning Sue left to take his body home she stopped by to say goodbye to the boys, (they are buds!). She said to Alan and I, "You enjoy this time together, and think of me and Kelly, I am a cautionary tale. You never know how much time you have ahead of you." There is nothing to make you appreciate the moment you are living quite like spending it with people who are...you know, running out of those moments. But that's the point isn't it? We don't know how many of those moments are ahead of us. So, what's your dream?

Happy Holidays

Holidays are loaded.

Everyone dreams of the Norman Rockwell Christmas, and maybe those are out there, but I think they must be the exception more than the rule. More often than not they are a little less Rockwell and a little more Griswald. Everyone has such high expectations, and the money, effort and preparations that go into each piece… It’s bound to go horribly wrong at some point. When I look back at holidays as a child, the best were those blissful childhood years when you didn’t know that everyone else was busting their butt trying to make it magical! As soon as we become old enough to become aware of the politics, the drama and the cost of holidays, the sheen wears off.

     This year, I approached the holidays with a mixture of joy and dread. So many concerns come with full timing with kids! Will it be festive enough? Is a tree essential? Where will I put the gifts? Can we buy gifts? Is there room for MORE crap? And then, when December arrived, I realized, we were in Florida, at the beach! Our entire collective Christmas memory includes snowmen, sledding, and cherished décor that is now in storage!

     Just as my panic reached the height of it’s fevered pitch, a package arrived. Mini Christmas trees, reindeer and garlands, Rudolph noses and stockings…. Christmas in a box!  Our friend Beth from Colorado was so worried about our lack of Christmas Spirit, she and her family put together a care package! Soon lights began to adorn the carts that drove past. Campers began to light up, sculptures of flamingos pulling sleighs made an appearance. A huge Christmas tree lit up the Clubhouse. Neighbors invited us to see the boats all lit up, a Christmas Boat parade in the fishing village of Matlachay. The boys were invited to make the centerpieces for Christmas Dinner at the park. Neighbors came by on their carts singing Christmas carols, a new kind of caroling! And suddenly, Christmas was here, in its true form, with friendship and community. And we took a second look at the holiday. We watched four different versions of “A Christmas Carol” and looked for the overriding meaning. The boys got it, more so than any other year.

   It wasn’t just the box, or the tree or the carols it was the realization that a loving community surrounds us, both here and around the country. That, even though we say it every year, the true celebration of this season is love. We are so grateful to be surrounded by that love, to have the chance to be together as a family. We have been able to spend more time with family than we have in decades, and Pappa and Gramcyn are coming to have Christmas with us. 

Isn’t that really the appeal of the Griswald family as well? That even though the tree is infested with squirrels, it goes up in flames and the cat is incinerated, the love of family ultimately reigns supreme over the indignities of daily life. 

According to Dr. Seuss…

“It came without ribbons!... it came without tags!... it came without packages, boxes, or bags!”

In our case, it came without snowmen, sledding or cocoa, but it has come all the same.

Happy Holidays to all, we wish you a holiday filled with the love you deserve, now and always.

First Really Bad Day

    I know that bad days are just a part of life but it has been so wonderful for six months that I almost forgot things happen. While moving the fifth wheel to Camping World our poor Wanda the Wildcat has experienced a major problem. To sum it up, we were taking Wanda in because we hit a good bump in the road and heard a load bang and noticed the trailer was sitting lower than normal. On the way in the area that was broken got worse and now we cant move it. To make it worse, our warranty wont cover it because it structural and our insurance company may or may not cover it. I know I should have learned by now that it doesn't matter how much you think your covered, your really not.

     I asked if our rig was covered for the full amount of the loan and of course I heard yes 8 months ago, now they change their tune and only cover what it worth which apparently changes a thousand dollars a month since its now worth 8k less. So tonight we are doing the parking lot thing waiting for our insurance company to send someone out to decide if they will cover the damage or if we are going to have to take our chances and tow it back to the island until we can come up with 5k to fix it. I honestly cant understand why we buy insurance since they don't seem to cover anything. Well I have to say that my four coors light beers are making sitting in the trailer in the parking lot much better. It will most likely be a week before we can move but we will make the most of it. We are headed to Orlando on Friday anyway so only really three more nights here.

   

Settling in with the Snowbirds....

I know you have all been waiting with baited breath to see what the Hamilton family is up to next. Well, since our last trip to Big Cypress we have been working pretty hard at the KOA getting into the swing of things. Laura has become an expert in custodial management and I have become more proficient in fixing problems that older people cause. Aiden and I had our birthdays in November and we have made plans in December to go to Disney World with my Dad and Cyndi and Sea World so we can catch up with AJ, Tom and the kids. 

            For my Birthday Laura and the boys fixed up the 5^th wheel with balloons and a nice card as well as a dinner certificate which we used to go to the Tiki Bar and have some drinks.

  For Aiden’s birthday we did a similar thing but got him a cake and some gifts so he felt loved.  We also took the A-dog to the Naples Zoo. We got to see them feed some alligators and learned about moneys and snakes. (Honey, tell them about the gators, okay I’ll tell them…

     We were at the zoo and went to the Gator show, they had a new zoo keeper and while the woman was narrating all about Gators the kid let one of the gators get past him. All the zoo keepers scattered and this HUGE gator was roaming around up where he wasn’t supposed to be until a more experienced keeper got him back in the water. It was awesome.)

               

Since we have been on the island we have seen tons of wildlife including three species of turtles, at least 4 species of lizard, hundreds of geko’s and so many different frogs its unreal. You have all heard my story on the giant tree frog who tried to give me a heart attack, well I have more to add. It seems that all the different species of tree frogs here like to sit on the top of the doors and when we open them at night they jump and pee all at the same time which is awesome when you aren’t expecting it. Yesterday we came across a 18” leatherback turtle in the road and the last week I have seen several yellow rat snakes and black racers.  I have tried to get pictures of the countless night creatures but cant figure the dang camera out so you can see them with us.

                                        

Some of our other friends here on the island are a pair of bald eagles that have a nest near the KOA,  several osprey that have nests in the area and several thousand crows that fill the sky when they fly around. I never have a camera when these things are happening but will continue to try and get a picture of that, it’s amazing.

     We have finally got our nameplate like the rest of the people on the road so everyone knows what trailer to stay away from. I was also able to finally get Laura some local plants that are wonderful colors so she can make this more of a home for the family.  (AND now we have two cute little coconut turtles there too! The boys were given their very own coconut turtles to decorate from Miss Suzie. She and her husband Kelly are Cattle ranchers up in North Dakota and come down here for the winter. They sell adorable coconut animals, I LOVE the flamingoes! She supplied the coconut animals for them to paint as part of their art projects. We are also in charge of making all the centerpieces for the Christmas dinner, THIRTEEN TABLES!)

We got the below picture in front of the sign on the pool deck here at the resort. In case you can’t read it, the sign reads “Stranded on Pine Island, Don’t send help”.

     

                 

Since Alan CLEARLY isn’t going to say it, I am! The blessings of the universe are obviously upon us, I mean, sheesh, we get to spend 24-7 together with our kids except for the 45 min of “Adult time” each night with a glass of wine in the hot tub under the palm trees! But all that loveliness couldn’t continue unless we could fund it after March. The minimum wage jobs we work now are just for grocery money and the reduced rent we are given in turn for being employees! All the “real” bills are paid out of our savings. But….. Drumroll please….. this is big people…. Big Daddy will be working for an online firm as of December 15^th! And it’s totally remote which means he will be doing it out of the rig, WAHOO! So, we don’t have any set plans for after March yet but lots of options. We’ll let you know. And thanks for all the prayers and positive thoughts!  

This is Aiden. Yesterday was my birthday. I went to the Naples Zoo. It had monkeys on there own island. The monkeys could not swim. That would be a disaster.

You could feed the Giraffes. It was one of the four zoos that had honey badgers. My cake had chocolate frosting and it was chocolate cake too. This is Aiden here and out.